Walking through Alley Pond, I often encounter groups of Asian women, and their attire often reveals their cultural backgrounds. Korean women, distinguished by their brand-name activewear and sporty shoes, exude an air of casual elegance rather than intense and serious physical activity. Their leisurely strolls and animated conversations resemble social gatherings more than sweaty exercise routines.
This observation led me to inquire about Korean cultural norms from my student. She chuckled and explained that in Korean culture, appearance matters even during physical activities. Whether it's a morning walk or a round of golf, Koreans value well-coordinated outfits as a means to maintain a polished appearance. They pay attention to what they wear and how they look even at home.
This emphasis extends beyond personal preference; it seems like a societal expectation, influencing how individuals present themselves in various settings. For instance, she told me, gifting an expensive jumper jacket to parents is not merely a gesture of affection but also a status symbol to be flaunted among peers. Like her parents would show off the jacket, saying "See my daughter bought it for me."
In contrast, Chinese cultural attitudes diverge significantly. Chinese women, especially 中国大妈 (Zhōngguó dàmā) Chinese Aunties, often value practicality over fashion, opting for functional attire even during exercise. Their brisk walks and focused conversations exude no-nonsense seriousness and pragmatism, emphasizing efficiency over outward appearance, substance over style, like telling people around "Here I come. Move out of my way." They'd rather indulge in culinary delights than luxury apparel.
Reflecting on these cultural disparities, I've gained a deeper appreciation for how societal norms and expectations shape everyday behaviors and even clothes. Beyond aesthetics, these choices embody broader cultural values of self-presentation and social interaction. We see a rich diversity within Asian cultures, which challenges stereotypes about appearance and consumerism across all Asians.
In conclusion, these encounters help broaden my cultural understanding and appreciation of the beauty of diversity in human appearances and expression.