Lessons from life: staying focused on your goal amid distractions

Here are a few snapshots from daily life.  

Last month, I purchased an item on Walmart's website for $14. By November 15, the same item was priced at $20. I've noticed similar price spikes for other products as well. After some research, I learned that businesses are preemptively adjusting prices in anticipation of tariff hikes expected next year. Perhaps I should start storing some basic necessities now to prepare for the heavy uncertainty we are facing now.

Most parents are familiar with the concept of school bullying, known as 霸凌 (bà líng) in Chinese. The first character, 霸 (bà), conveys "tyranny, dominance, or aggressiveness," while the second character, 凌 (líng), means "to insult, humiliate, bully or mistreat." Lately I'm wondering: do children learn this type of behavior from observing adults?  

Recently, I witnessed—and even experienced—a mild form of bullying at the YMCA swimming pool. My friend Amy, who is four years older than me, jumped into the pool and began swimming on one side of the lane, as sharing lanes is common due to the limited space. However, a strong, assertive woman who was already swimming in the lane deliberately bumped into Amy, acting as if she hadn’t noticed her. “You’re in my way,” the woman said curtly.

Later, Amy shared her frustration with me. “She’s so aggressive!” she said. I replied that I’d had a similar experience and added, “Some people behave like school bullies, even though they are adults. The best we can do is avoiding them. Remember, the whole purpose of our coming to the gym is to stay healthy. Letting them upset us defeats that purpose.”  

This advice applies not just to individuals but also to nations. Some countries behave like bullies on the global stage. For countries like China, whose primary goal is economic development and lifting its millions out of poverty, it’s crucial to stay focused on what truly matters and not allow distractions—or aggressors—to derail its progress toward achieving long-term objectives.

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From a friend, “你说的对!“任凭风吹浪打,我自闲庭信步”。 这时候需要点儿老毛精神和中国智慧💪💪”
From a young friend, “专注真正重要的事,不被外界干扰牵着走[ThumbsUp]阿姨总有生活智慧,学习了”
It is common ppl are grouped together based on their ability in sports activities for mutual benefit. Suggests fast/slow land just as fast/slow lanes on highway.
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