While I was in the locker room after swimming, I heard a mother and her daughter doing mental math, like calculating 48 times 69. My attention was instantly drawn to them. They looked like they might be of Indian descent, mother with strong accent and the girl seemed to be still in elementary school. Wow! Way better than me. I was amazed at how good they were at mental math.
This brought back memories of my efforts with my own children, teaching them the 9x9 multiplication table while driving them to school, reciting ancient Chinese poems, telling them historical stories, or singing Chinese songs while taking evening walks. We were poor graduate students, lowest with resources and later we made a meager income when our children were little. Yet, whatever knowledge I had stored in my brain, I never miss a second to share with them. My parents used to criticize me for 好为人师 (hào wéi rén shī), eager to teach others. Of course they were right.
This Indian mother and daughter reminded me so much of the Asian parents I know, who value both time and teaching, seizing every moment for education. Next time I meet my Korean student, I will ask her if she does the same.
I think this also speaks loudly about a part of Asian culture. Firstly, it emphasizes the importance of learning. Secondly, it all starts within the family. Thirdly, parents sow the seeds of learning in the minds of their children when they are very young. No wonder so many Asian kids do well in school. It all begins with families that prioritize and value education.
Reflecting on these experiences, it's as clear as the daylight that the parents’ dedication to learning and teaching within the family plays a very crucial role in a child's academic success.
Additionally, it's not just formal education at school that kids learn from; it's also the everyday moments that parents use to instill knowledge and values.
By valuing education and making it a central part of family life, we can help our children develop the skills and confidence they need to succeed in life.
This cultural emphasis on learning is a powerful testament to the impact of parental involvement and the lifelong benefits it brings to the children.