So many things happened during the weekend, meeting my Korean student, meeting someone at the swimming pool of YMCA, my daughter's art sale. They all mean something to me. I wish I could record them before they fade out in my memory.
First, my daughter had an art sale last Saturday, first time since she quit her well-paid New York job in October 2021. The sale was an opportunity for networking and free marketing for her art.
I was overjoyed to learn that she sold over 10 prints that day. She exceeded my expectations again, just like before when she was the first girl winning the chess tournament trophy in elementary school and when she snatched a prize in an international essay contest in high school.
While it is heartening to see my daughter fearlessly embrace her passion and the untold hardships involved, her courage and determination to carve out her own path and to triumph on her own terms is a source of inspiration and strength for me. Here's a heartfelt tribute to her spirit and accomplishments!
Second, my student talked to me about the incoming summer break of her daughters'. I said, it's better to make a plan for this large chunk of time. Having a plan can help us get more done, like planning to finish reading 10 books in summer, etc. She said, my eldest daughter wouldn't listen to me because she doesn't like reading. Oh boy, she got more problem than I thought. Still, I tried.
Before anything else, we need to understand why she doesn't enjoy reading. Perhaps we can encourage her to explore topics or subjects that she's passionate about. She might enjoy this exploration process, which can make the reading experience more enjoyable.
Next, as a parent, we need to lead by example. Sometimes, seeing others have so much fun reading can inspire someone to give it a try. Make sure we start with easy books.
Finally, the key to implementing a plan is to set a realistic goal. If the girl is reluctant to commit to 10 books, suggest starting with 8 or less. Remember to talk to your girl about the book after each reading, its character, its event, what would you do if you were in the story, etc. That will help her with critical thinking and communication skills. Both skills are super cool in the long run.
Perhaps you can make this your summer goal: helping her find enjoyment in reading or become a bookworm.